Do I dare to touch my hair?

DJ likes longer hair - one of the things he told me when we first started chatting online, then on the phone. He hasn't really said one way or another since then (10 years), but I have this image in my head that I need to keep longer hair to be sexy to my husband.

But I notice lately he isn't looking at my hair - he's looking at my butt, my breasts, my legs, my eyes... WOOHOO for me - I AM SEXY to my husband!!

So - time to completely change my hairdo!!! I have to go get my highlights and lowlights done why not do something fun with my hair? My appt. is Thursday and I have been spending a lot of time thinking about different hairstyles and what to do.

I have been a fat girl for a long time, I used my hair to hide behind. So lets cut it off! I havent changed my color since beauty school - but it's a nice color and fits my skin tone well. I throw my hair up everyday - even on the weekends. What's the point if you can't see it?

So - I am doing it, totally just convinced myself to do it. Wonder what I will choose? Pics coming...